Finally!!!!!!!!
In July of 2020, I finally seperated from my now 2nd ex-husband of 3yrs and was damaged more than the 1st marriage of 16yrs. I am a mother of two primary girls, from my 1st ex-husband, and am CEO of Divine Hire, a direct hire firm here in California. Unfortunately I got married quick with my recent ex-husband which followed my 1st divorce and knew I needed to heal and rediscover my worth. I was angry, sad, resentful, and so very broken. I prayed for help and then began to seek out help. I had no luck with my insurance after a year+ finding the right therapist or availability and after this prayer I began to look at FB and online searching divorce support type groups and divinely came across a Steps to Happyness video and FB group for Getting Over Him which was so unique! Now only is it a place for empowerment, but life coach Cherlyn specializes in healing strong independent woman who get taken advantage of by no good men. Finding Cherlyn and her GOH program was THE answer to my prayers! I was ready to make that investment in myself at any cost which happened to be affordable in my opinion! I messaged her immediately in the middle of that night and began with an introduction call and felt so great about this journey I was ready to take and began booking sessions! Cherlyn healed Traumas from my past relationships that years of therapy never could! She used specialized techniques and able to assess and ask questions to get to the root of the problem and traumas. GOH brings a step by step guide through expert very detailed modules to be with you every step of the journey to getting over him and healing. She also brings science, education, and awareness. Prior to GOH I did not know what a Narcassist was or Sociopath. I thought they were adjectives and not actual mental diagnosis which happened to be my ex-husband. And understanding what type of man I was dealing helped so much because I really do not want to make that mistake again, it would be detrimental and I may not be so lucky as I am now to have survived a toxic relationship like that. Cherlyn understood every feeling and trauma and pain and customized healing sessions for me. She really cares and is not some cookie cutter. She adjusts as needed to meet you where you are and addresses things that come up. Like gardening, she finds the roots and weeds, pulls them outs, heals and harvests the soil, allows you to plant new seeds and shows you how to cultivate them to take new root to be on their way to blossom. And like a new gardener, we may not get all the weeds or lingering roots and she sees what all weeds are and works with you to get them out. After just the 1st session, I already began to take notice to small things that showed me this was working. It has been so long I was carrying relational traumas and pain and resentment that I did not realize my voice changed from what it once was. And after a couple sessions, my sweet voice came back, joy came back, and my light and flame within began to burn and slowly grow brighter melting away the layers or calous built around my heart. I am so grateful to Cherlyn and GOH and can say it has been only 4 months and my life has dramatically changed!!! Prior to this it was hard to smile and I was consumed by sadness and anger and suffered from anxiety attacks. Now I have peace, carry no sadness, no regrets and no anxiety! I smile and love myself and am still on a journey but it is to become a better version of myself; the best version of myself. And without healing from those traumas, none of this or a brighter future could have been possible! So if you are results oriented and all about getting things done and moving on, the this no nonsense GOH program will get you there. It won't be easy, but nothing is and your future self will thank you!