Before and After Get Over Him Program
Before I signed up for the Get Over Him program with Cherlyn and Steps to Happyness, I was really struggling to cope with my break up. It was a break up with my first serious boyfriend and I genuinely thought that I had found my person. I had found a place of belonging and he broke that hope for the future to pieces. I couldn't get any sleep for a week before I finally decided to see a doctor for some sleeping medication. But even with the medication, my sleep was broken. I cried myself to sleep and I woke up and cried in the morning. I was crying on the train on the way to work. I was crying at work. I was crying in the shower... all I did was cry for this man who did not deserve any more second of my time. I started having panic attacks from Thursday to Saturday. Saturday was our day together, and I was scared to death facing it alone. To make matters worse, my parents couldn't understand why I was feeling so broken and why I couldn't just turn off my feelings and go back to dating a week after the break up. I felt completely ill prepared to deal with this and I have never felt so alone in my life. Cherlyn's program was split into several modules and each module was absolutely spot on as to how I was feeling. There was homework at the end of each module and she held me accountable to complete them. Her sessions were so insightful, and they made me go "OH! I'm not crazy for feeling like this!". She made me understand where the feelings came from and what they actually meant to me and why I was feeling that way. Because she made me accountable to do the work, I truly started to heal. I got over my ex in a little over 1 month! I didn't think I would ever get over him, let alone in as little as 5 weeks! She doesn't make empty promises of miraculous painless method. You do have to put in the hard yard, and yes, it will be painful and yes, it will suck going through the pain for a little while. But I can truthfully say that it is worth every single cent that I spent for this program. It is only by going through the pain, can you finally move forward, and she helped me do exactly that! I'm happy to announce that I can sleep without any meds now and the sleep are no longer broken. I sleep for at least 7 hours! ^^ Saturdays have returned to just another day for me to relax or catch up with chores. I would recommend Cherlyn's program to anyone who is completely done with feeling stuck on their ex and is willing to commit 100% to her program. Her work is truly a blessing, and I am grateful to have found her! ^^