We can’t go through life alone
We can’t go through life alone, especially when we are at our lowest point in life. A few years ago, I was at that point. The man I thought I was going to one day marry, decided to move half way across the world to be away from me. I had found out that he, an active duty military man, had also been active on the same site where we had met during the year and a half we were dating. I was also dealing with other major things in my life: the death of my sister, my parents were moving away to another state, and my teaching job that was beyond stressful. I was hopelessly alone and I was truly in a dismal frame of mind. Then my life changed with Cherlyn. A good friend had sent me The Huffington Post that featured Cherlyn’s comic. I’ve read it over and over and it truly had resonated with me. Even though I had never met her before, she was like me in a lot of ways, especially going through the most dreadful experience of heartbreak and loss. It was a comic that I would’ve done. The comic led to her website, which allowed me to reach out to Cherlyn, who was quick to respond. She had scheduled two free video sessions with me. I remember our first video session was in the Fall of 2017. She was welcoming and made me laugh a lot. She was as if I was talking to one of my best friends! That was how comfortable she made me feel. Not only is Cherlyn a talented artist, but she really knows her craft of working with the psychology of relationships. She’s got a plethora of knowledge backed up with legit research, but presents it in a way that normal people like me understand. She was able to read me right off the bat, in an honest way that I’ve never saw myself. Here I was a single woman living solo in the big city of LA, approaching my mid thirties, emotionally scarred from heartbreak, grief, and stress. It was clear that I couldn’t deal with my issues on my own. Fed up, I did not have the time to waste on going through the same heartache. I wanted to move forward in my life and I’ve trusted Cherlyn to help me through. For once, I needed to choose my well being and happiness—and that was investing in myself to heal from heartbreak and start a new chapter in my life. During our sessions, we took a close look into my relationship past. Cherlyn was able to help me identify patterns in the men that I’ve dated and why I tend to put up with the wrong men. She also helped me understand my habits during dating that allow myself to be hurt in the end. With Cherlyn, I was able to get over my ex in just a little over a month! Without her (and also the support of her Facebook group) I probably would have been wasting my life away trying to get my ex back. NOPE! I don’t need that form of toxic relationship back in my life! I needed to focus on myself first before dating anyone new. I’ve been on a few dates during my year of being single but Cherlyn helped me date myself, first and foremost! Cherlyn formulated a specific action plan in my life and acted as my accountability person. She not only helped me in my personal life, she helped me with my professional life. Within a few months working with her, I’ve got a new job as a teacher and moved out state to be closer to family. Not long after I moved, I had met the love of my life. Within 3 weeks, he told me he didn’t want to see anyone else and asked me to be his girlfriend! Here was a man who wants commitment just as much as I do! Committed men do exist! I’d love to think it was all because I was just lucky. But really, it was because I AM FABULOUSLY AWESOME.. and so are YOU!! Can I hear an Amen?! YAS!! It takes commitment to ourselves to show how fabulously awesome we are. With the amazing support of Cherlyn, I’ve gained the confidence to know myself well and not repeat the same mistakes. Without her, I would have been still lost in the dark side of dating. Now I’ve seen the light, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I am with a man who is not only is beautiful on the outside but beautiful on the inside. He treats me with love and respect and makes me laugh and smile like no other. Don’t lose hope ladies, your man is out there for you! However, in order to find him, it takes action on your part! For those who are on the fence about whether Cherlyn’s help is worth the price tag... IT SO IS! Think of it as choosing to invest yourself first. If money is an issue, Cherlyn offers reasonable payment plans. I am a school teacher so I know that I have to be mindful about how I spend my money. Bottom line: I would not be where I am without Cherlyn. This is why I want to let every person who is experiencing a broken heart about the work Cherlyn does. She can help fix it and make your heart whole again. If you want to turn things around, the choice is yours. By choosing to work with Cherlyn, you are choosing your “happyness.” CHOOSE YOU.