Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty Chambliss (lovingwithoutboundaries.com) has a 4.8 out of 5 rating on OK.one, based on 43 user reviews collected here. It is listed under Legal Services & Government and its reputation is excellent. Praise is nearly unanimous, with 95% rating it 4 stars or higher; The business has replied to 100% of negative reviews; 4 of them were added in the last 12 months. Last updated 2026-08-10.
I began the program, very insecure, fearful and consumed by thoughts dragging me down. I now feel much more secure, with many tools under my belt that has set me up for such success. I feel prepared and able to handle my thoughts and feelings – making myself a better person, being a better partner in my relationship as well. — Calvin
Kitty is a fabulous coach. She has the biggest heart and really listens and empathizes. I feel very comfortable sharing my personal experiences with Kitty. Kitty brings her experience in polyamory and creates ways to explore jealousy and other hard feelings. She helped me process jealousy and anger in non-violent ways. The Jealousy Survival Guide Program helped me with my relationship with my husband. I learned tools that I will use forever. Kitty has a special way of getting right into the heart of a matter. She is a great role model. She shares about her life and makes connecting and opening up safe to do. Kitty is a coach with so much energy. Her sense of humor is contagious. She knows how to help people. She is truly a master at what she does. — Michelle A.
LWB is one of those companies that seems to be everywhere you need them to be... FB, Twitter, podcasts, etc. with resources and full coaching programs. I am familiar with Kitty Chambliss' the owner's work, who also wrote a book on jealousy (which I read and it was pretty well put together). She actually cares about the community and helping people get through the difficulties that inevitably arise in open relationships. I know firsthand what a big heart she has, and how hard she works to for her mission.
“We were in crisis at the start of the program. With Kitty’s guidance and lessons, we were able to greatly improve all aspects of our life.” — John A.
“My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!” — Anna A.
Thank you so much for this lovely review! I appreciate you sharing your honest experience moving through this life-changing and powerful work! It was an absolute pleasure being your guide and your coach. I want to take a moment to honor YOU and your determination to reach out for expert help, step up, and say "yes" to you living your truth and not hiding anymore! YES!!! You rocked this process, and I'm honored to know you, and be inspired by your success. Sending you big love!
Incredibly manipulative sales tactics! I found Kitty's website when searching for a poly coach, and signed up for a free "breakthrough sessions". The team member we spoke with asked about our relationship problems in detail, we spilled our hearts out, and she told us we absolutely needed help and would be good candidates for the course. It turns out the course is $9000. That's more than we can afford, so we told her it just wasn't an option for us, and she said that we would never fix our relationship without their help?! We said that we just didn't have the money, and she suggested we take out loans or borrow money from family or friends(!!!). She asked if we had kids (we don't), and said to imagine that a niece or nephew was in trouble and needed help—wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help them? Why wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help ourselves? Did we not care about our relationship? She then graciously told us that if we payed right now with a credit card, she could lower the price to $5000. If you have the money to pay for this course, I'm sure it must be decent (if I remember correctly, for $9000/$5000 you get 10 prerecorded lessons, access to a FB group, and two or three 30 minute conversations with one of their specialists, which seems a bit steep). My problem is not with the price, but with the way they lure you. They prey on people who are just trying to save their relationships and become better partners, which I honestly find disgusting. IN RESPONSE TO YOUR REPLY— If you have a recording of the call I would LOVE to hear it, to see exactly which parts I’m apparently remembering incorrectly (I never claimed to remember the exact details of the course—like I said, my criticism was of the sales tactics, not the course itself). If you have nothing to hide, feel free to send me the recording via email.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I honor that you reached out for help, seeking a coach to guide you through issues that you were facing. You are absolutely correct that the initial consultation is free of charge. On that call, myself and my team do not make an offer to assist you until we see if we are actually a fit to work together, based on what you vulnerably share on that call. Our job is to get to the heart of why you reached out, and see if we can help, while we also determine if you are ready and willing to put in the work to change your situation. Otherwise, it would be unethical to proceed. Where there is some inaccuracy / misunderstanding: 1) This is not simply a “course”. Working with myself and my dedicated team is an immersive process consisting of live coaching with multiple coaching touch-points a week, a carefully crafted curriculum based on decades of experience that I steward clients through, and the opportunity to join an elite lifelong community, with continual support and ongoing upgraded materials literally for the rest of your life. 2) With all due respect, some of what you say here is not correct based on the facts of the call in question. I do have a recording of our call (recorded with disclosure). Some of what you share here is not accurate based on the transcription and my team listening closely to that very call. I do understand that our memories as humans can be faulty sometimes. That happens. 3) The team member that you spoke to that day no longer works for Loving Without Boundaries. We do our best to offer a quality experience at every stage. This is why I do invite feedback and thank you, even though you and your partner chose not to enroll and have not actually worked with me or my expert relationship coaching services at all, nor been through this transformational program. In terms of cost: There is a cost to months, years, and decades of emotional pain that I help my clients move up and out of, in living their most authentic lives in healthy relationship structures of their choosing. Many say they couldn’t afford NOT to do this transformational work getting lifelong priceless skills. This is stated eloquently here many times by our actual clients. The people I work with know that investing in themselves, their mind (emotional/mental health), their skills (including relationship building skills), and their future is 100% worth the investment. One thing I know to be true: Some people stay stuck for years (by not taking inspired action), other people get results (by believing in themselves and taking a courageous step forward). This immersive – and even fun and beautiful process – works powerfully for those who are decisive/committed, coach-able, and resourceful. Clearly, we are not a fit to work together. That is ok and I honor your decision. I wish you the best in all of your endeavors. I’m sending you love, light, and positive energy to you and your loved ones. I do hope that you find the right professional to help you. Sincerely, Kitty Chambliss and the Loving Without Boundaries Team
We first spoke with Kitty because my spouse was interested in her program. I was on the call just to please him. By the end of the first call, due to the conversation we had and the compassion I sensed from Kitty, we had decided to participate and pay the required fee. I am/was skeptical of polyamory and consider myself Monogamous. We participated whole-heartedly in Kitty‘s program. It did improve our relationship and provided personal growth for both of us. In my opinion, the program is well worth the cost. The people at LWB have been honest and helpful with us. I consider the money for the program well-spent. It did not change my feeling about monogamy/polyamory but I feel that I understand our relationship better now and can handle my emotions better than I have in the past.
Thank you for your beautiful and honest review. I appreciate you, Kathy, your big heart, and the authentic and amazing way you show up in everything that you do, including keeping an open mind as you watched your relationship with your husband grow!
The LWOB program helped me to become happier and more confident with myself! I am single and started to identify as ethically non-monogamous within the past couple of years. I’ve had some great relationships in my past, but many of them were ending in heartbreak and frustration since my partners identify as monogamous. This was causing me to feel shame and to think something was wrong with me, which only lead to more negative internal thoughts and a lack of confidence. The LWOB program brought me the following benefits: — Community: Mixture of non-monogamy and monogamous people who have the communication skills and shared experiences to help each other. — Tools: A variety of exercises to help me more clearly sort out my own thoughts and beliefs, along with a chance to practice how I communicate who I am and what I seek. — Wealth of Resources: There are so many videos, books, podcasts, websites, online community groups, etc that help to share other people’s journeys on what relationship style they seek and effective ways to live that life! — Confidence: Kitty and the LWOB program helped me find my MOJO again! I am excited and confident about sharing who I am, what I have to offer and the type of relationships that I seek, with other like-minded ethically non-monogamous people. Even though I’m finished with the program, I am still using many of the techniques I learned to communicate more clearly with people from all circles of my life while also having fun connecting with other non-monogamous friends and partners!
Thank you so whole-heartedly for this amazing and thorough review! I love how you broke down the specific benefits that you received (Community, Tools, Wealth of Resources, Confidence). You showed up powerfully, gave it everything you had, and now are reaping the benefits of that hard work. I am so proud of you, and delighted to have you as part of our cherished clients, and part of our Loving Without Boundaries community. Let me know if you need anything further! Happy to support your journey living your best and most authentic life.
My husband and I found Kitty in our hardest, crisis moment, being skeptical at the start I dove in into her magical guided course. And what valuable tools we've found! She is like a wiz taking on a magical journey of self exploration, observation of your boundaries. Being comfortable with new dimensions of myself I gained confidence in voicing my needs and to myself and y partner. This is another gem that she can gift you, are keys to healthy communication. Overall very satisfied with how easy and user friendly her whole course went, and weekly calls were so beneficial to feel the spirit of transformation, of course there wr some stagnant moment in my experience, but I was always felt open to share it during the group or private and get wholesome help and support. Go Kitty, your mission is great, and Im wishing you only to thrive and flourish!
Wow! What a fantastic share, and such beautiful, amazing sentiments! I am so incredibly delighted to hear about your experience diving into this transformative and important work – getting all of the healthy communication skills, self-understanding, and creating healthy boundaries as you build a magical life that you are proud of with your husband! YES! I absolutely LOVE my mission of helping committed, coach-able, resourceful great folks like you live your best and most authentic life! YOU showed up and did the work, and therefore got such great results. THANK YOU for being part of this amazing community of heart-centered individuals who value personal growth and self-mastery.
Bad negative behavior and thought processes: once it becomes a habit, it feels comfortable, safe, and easy. Even though it’s destructive, it’s the easy way to go. You don’t have to do any work. You just scratch that itch, and it feels good and you just roll with it. When you start to make these really intentional choices and changes in the way that you think, based on the things I learned in this course and time with Kitty, which then dictates how you behave, it’s SO hard and it feels like, oh gosh, is it always going to be this hard? But what does Kitty always say? You are building that muscle and the more you flex that muscle – such as sharing with friends what I’ve learned – that helps me even more. The feelings will go away, but eventually you learn how to handle the feelings in a productive. Eventually the triggers are not so "trigger-y" anymore. Eventually it gets better! That’s the work you have to do and this course facilitated that in a way that I have not experienced in any other formet. It worked for me, and I like who I am still becoming because of it, even a whole year later! It’s making me a more mindful parent; it’s making me a different kind of employee; it’s bleeding over into all sorts of aspects of my life. It’s not just my relationships, this is about me.
Wow, I cannot believe a year has gone by since I got to see your beautiful face multiple times a week on our twice weekly Q&A calls! I miss your face, beautiful! You are AMAZING! You dove into this work with so much heart, vulnerability, courage, and absolutely fantastic questions (staying coach-able ready to take the coaching and the answers)! THAT’S why you got such great results! You took investing in yourself and your own growth and happiness seriously! I am so proud and happy for you! Know I am here if you need anything, lovely! Your self-understanding, awareness and desire for mastery in all things "relationship" (including the relationship with yourself) is inspiring and AWESOME! Sending you so much love!
I reached out to Kitty as a last effort to save my marriage, my wife and I were in a very tough spot at the time. I admit we winced at the cost but knew that the chance to save our marriage was more than worth the cost. It was an amazing experience working with Kitty, she is a truly fantastic person and coach. We learned so much about ourselves and eachother throughout the program and also so many tools to utilize in every aspect of our lives from our relationship to parenting and even our professional lives. I am so very thankful to Kitty and the community of LWB for the support, patience and love that they openly share. It was a life changing decision and I can not express how grateful I am to have found her program and the LWB community.
What an amazing share and review here. I truly appreciate you, your hard work, how amazingly and courageously you showed up to do this work, and the kind and honest words that you shared here. I is truly an honor and a privilege to have you as part of our Loving Without Boundaries community. I love how vulnerably and authentically you showed up, and continue to show up, to your own personal growth and self-acceptance. I am always here for you, as I love my mission of helping brave and fantastic people like you live their most authentic lives, and will continue to do so for years to come. Sending you big love, today and every day!
Before we began this program, we were in a state of ignoring issues and just trying to make it through everyday. Now we have the communication tools to resolve conflicts, issues, and emotional triggers quickly. We rely on, support, and trust each other more than ever.
FANTASTIC! I am so incredibly delighted to read this, and to see you both continuing to practice all of the communication and emotion management skills, and positive mindset work that you learned through the process of saying “yes” to living your happiest and healthiest life by joining the program. So great to hear! Sending you great vibes, back at you! Keep going! I'm here if you need me!
This program made me realize I was approaching this whole journey from a place a fear, which is not what I want to do. I took a step back, asked for help, and felt 1,000 times better about it. After our initial opening up, I realized I was not finished growing! Luckily, Kitty maintains this program so that I can revisit it, even after graduation, to give my relationship a "tune up."
So much YES!!! Thank you so much for this fantastic and honest review! I was and am deeply honored that you trusted me to guide you out of some of the dark places that you found yourself. You showed up ready for action, dove in, did the work, and truly continue to reach self-mastery and deep understanding of yourself and those that you love. I am so grateful that you continue to be in my life on this journey around the sun we are all on. I also so love seeing parents like you then have these skills at the ready for your children to learn from as well. Your kids are AWESOME! Just like you! Keep going, and I am right here cheering you on and if you ever need me in this capacity again. Love you!
Absolutely worth every penny. I wrote that first in case you’re just skimming reviews. We have never experienced a therapist, counselor, mentor or coach on any topic who was so invested and engaged with us and so clearly and genuinely had our backs. Both of us entered our relationship after failed attempts at monogamous marriages, knowing that we were just never going to be monogamous. But there are challenges galore to be navigated, and it is sometimes rough going (to put it mildly). We first met Kitty when she presented at the Beyond the Love conference, when we were just starting to seek out the skills we needed to grow our relationship in a non-monogamous way. In the few years since then, we’ve explored, grown, and figured out what we desire and don’t desire. We found that we preferred slightly different versions of non-monogamy. Eventually this led to a major relationship crisis, and we faced the impossible choice of either ending our relationship or circling the wagons while doing our best to suppress our desires until we couldn’t stand it anymore (which then would have eventually ended the relationship). We had bought Kitty’s book a year or two prior and decided to sign up for her 9-week coaching program. Kitty has without exaggeration changed our lives. We are living the life of our dreams. If our past selves could look at the life we have created, they would be mind-blown. The beauty, love, and intimacy in our relationship and our lives is better than it’s ever been. You CAN have your cake at eat it too!
WOW! Amazing! I so want to again say a big heartfelt THANK YOU to you for not only writing this incredible review, but also for saying "yes" to getting the tools, skillset, and expert guidance that you so courageously sought out when you needed it for you and your brave partner! That takes strength and determination! I honor your perseverance and you trusting your intuition and your heart to work with the right coach and mentor for you! (thank you for reading my book – I'm so glad it helped get you on the right track)! I truly loved every single minute of working with you both! Know I am here for you anytime you need me. I love my mission of helping committed, resourceful and coach-able, heart-centered folks like you to live your most authentic lives! It brings me incredible joy to read this (again), and to have you as part of our Loving Without Boundaries community! Living your best life as you know is PRICELESS and worth every penny, and every beautiful second, because every second truly counts! I'm sending you a big virtual hug, and I hope to see you soon at a relationship conference in the future. Big love to you!
Wow ! where do I start! I have been married for 13 years. In the last two years I have been taught to see myself, hear myself,learnt to love. Who knew that loving was a skill that is taught. I am closer than ever to my husband. And our partner has just slipped in like a glove. It is hard seeing myself and owning my behaviours. I have experience the coarse and couldn’t of been where I am now without it. Kitty has become part of our Life. We check in with her every 2 months with kitty . Or reach out to kitty when ever someone is a bit stuck. Working on myself is an everyday job. With kitty’s tools and support there is an awakening in my life. Knowing that when it gets tough. I’m not left empty and fighting. I’m left with a tool box that I can rummage through. So exciting ! Lovingwithoutboundries coarse Has saved me so much money. I have stopped implosive spending on clothes, fix it diets , health retreats, FOOD that I don’t need. Also doctors appointments, and to hear that all I need is self love,then walking away from them feeling broke,unheard,disorientated in where to go from here . I am now the healthiest inside and out that I have ever been. We have even inspired others around us to do the coarse. Just by them seeing us grow . Thank you Kitty and her team that backs her.
Amazing! It is truly an honor and a privilege to have become a part of your life, Shannon! I have absolutely loved every single minute we have shared, and I love being your guide along this often challenging journey! Yes together, we are truly better! I want to acknowledge here all of the vulnerable and courageous work you have done, never shying away from seeing where you can grow, improve communication, and up-level your beliefs and thought processes, so that you all can live your best and most authentic lives... together. So beautiful to behold! I am deeply honored by your heartfelt words. You are truly never alone. I got you! Working with all of you beautiful souls is so exciting! Also, INCREDIBLE to read how much money you saved – that is FANTASTIC! I highly appreciate you sharing that here, so that others can see that investing in themselves (their mindset and their skillset) is truly worth every penny and is even priceless! It is a pleasure to serve you and your loving and courageous partners, Shannon. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Sending you big love! My team and I LOVE supporting you and your beautiful family on your collective journey!
I can say many things about Kitty, but what I think reflects best here for those who may come to these reviews with the question..."Will this work for us?"... Kitty brings 100% dignity, openness, love and compassion to what is often hidden and scarred by shame, fear, jealousy, anger, and misunderstanding in general. Our relationships are the most precious things in our lives and are so often mishandled simply becuase we lack something critical. In my experience, it's different in each relationship. Kitty understands the powerful and often visceral nature of deeply passionate love relationships. The question is not, "Will this work for us." The question is, "Will you show up to create the relationship you really want to have?" If the answer is 'yes', then you are in the right place.
With my hand on my heart, I am so deeply grateful for your amazing, beautiful, and 100% authentic and TRUE words here! So much of this is not even about me! It's about the courageous souls who show up every day to live their best lives. Many do not know this type of expert support, guidance and advanced skillset is here and available to them. Simply put: We don't know what we don’t know! I whole-heartedly agree and will repeat your question: "Will you show up to create the relationship you really want to have?" – even when coloring outside the lines of hetero-normative monogamy? You truly CAN live the most authentic – and even daring – life that you want, if you are willing to invest in yourself, your future, your mind, and your skillset. The results and having the relationships and building the family that you want – is PRICELESS and 100% totally worth every second and every penny. I see it every single day, and it is truly an honor and a privilege to do this work.
I can highly recommend Kitty to anyone who needs help or support with intimate relationships. She is 100% committed to getting the best outcome for her clients, and does so with honesty and vulnerability. Kitty has the drive, passion and skills to get to the heart of any issue, and will get you the results you are looking for. If you want more love in your life, look no further.
Wow! I'm blown away by your words! Indeed I love what I do, helping others live their most passionate and authentic lives – free from jealousy/insecurity, guilt/shame, and the pain of infidelity – in the open relationship and sex positive space, so that they feel truly unstoppable! It has been an honor to get to know you over the years, Andrew. I'm sending you so much love and positive energy back at you! I cheer you and your success on as well!
Kitty has always been very helpful, supportive and an absolute professional! I highly recommend working with her, I have received valuable support from her at all times. <3
Amazing! I so love reading this, and am honored, delighted, and excited to have you in my world, in my circle, and in my life... and I in yours, Katariina. Thank YOU for being amazing as well. I truly love what I do, and love standing in the integrity of being professional, offering valuable support to those who come under my influence. I do not take that lightly, as fine people like you putting your trust in me... truly means everything. Thank you! Let me know if you need anything.
I highly recommend working with Kitty if you want to get unstuck from your current situation and get results. Kitty is an expert coach and you can feel her care, compassion and commitment to her clients. And Kitty operates from her heart with honesty and integrity which I totally appreciate!
Fantastic to read this! THANK YOU so much for sharing authentically and honestly your experience with me as an expert coach who fully has my client's best interests at heart with 100% integrity! I appreciate not only your words here, but YOU as a beautiful human being, and you living your own brave, vulnerable, and courageous life! I have loved getting to know you, finding out where you came from, how much you had to overcome, and I am honored to know you, Tracy! Your life is truly inspiring (and you are just getting started), and your heart pure. Sending big love!
I feel like a changed woman! Kitty has the most incredible, loving and authentic approach to making me feel so loved and held. She has shown me a new, beautiful side to life and I will forever be grateful to her for everything she has done. I highly recommend Kitty!!
Beautiful, lovely Jigna! Your note here is so inspiring and exciting to read! I so DO love you, and hold such sacred space for you in my life and in my world! I love championing and supporting you, my lovely! YOU are a bright light, and I cherish you! xoxoxo
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