Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. Your dedicated matchmaker draws on our internal database of vetted singles and an active scout network, then handles the searching, screening, and scheduling. You see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. Since 2009 we've created 11,000+ relationships, with 82% of clients meeting someone special within 90 days. You approve every match. We handle everything else.
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VIDA Select (vidaselect.com) has a 4.3 out of 5 rating on OK.one, based on 100 user reviews collected here. It is listed under Events & Entertainment and its reputation is good. 83% of reviews are 4 stars or higher and 10% are 1 star; The business has replied to 93% of negative reviews; 62 of them were added in the last 12 months. Last updated 2026-09-02.
What a great experience. Got so many dates that I wouldn’t have got without Vida. From the set up of the profile. Pics…
But tbh it was Simmy Sanchez that really made the difference. Our initial 2 hour chat set the whole thing up. She took bits of our chat and fed them into the profile. Then was extremely responsive whenever I needed to comms with Vida about anything. Simmy - thank you for everything. Major superstar, no word of exaggeration. And … I think I have found someone special. 🤩
Reply from VIDA Select2024-11-11
It was an absolute pleasure getting to know you and work with you Tom! You had a wonderful approach to our process, your trust in us is immensely appreciated. So glad to have been part of your dating journey and wish you the very best for your new relationship! -Simmy
Nordika and her team were great! You can tell they had put the effort in to find a match for me. The only reason I am giving 4 stars, is the when I signed up for it, I thought they had their own database of men looking for relationships. I didn't realize I was going to be signing up for dating apps to find someone.
Either way, I got a lot of useful information from them on what to stay away from and look for.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-10-29
Hi Erin. Thank you so much for writing this review for us. I really appreciate it! It was such a pleasure getting to know you and working with you. You are an amazing person and I know you are going to find Mr Right! Please do keep in touch and let me know how it goes. Would love to hear your updates 🙂 Nordika
The team I worked with starting with Shyne are great to work with. She spent time to get to know the type of person I was looking for, , then put a plan into motion. Saved me all the time of sorting through hundreds of profiles. s
Reply from VIDA Select2024-11-11
Thank you so much, Joe! It's my pleasure working with you, and I'm truly grateful that we've been a part of your dating journey. I wish you all the best in your new relationship! Cheers ❤️ Shyne
Choosing Vida Select was the one of the best decisions I have ever made. Working with Francesca has been an absolute joy. She has been on top of this entire process from fabulous pictures to a perfect profile! She responds to all emails and texts in a super timely manner and is on time to the minute in our daily phone calls. I do not have to spend hours plowing through hundreds of potential "dates". You can have as much personal control as you choose or let them drive your car. Their professional job portraying "me" has led to so many "likes" and interest that I have had to ask them to put their process on hold as I don't have enough time to get to know so many lovely women. If you are serious about finding someone who is the "right fit" for you then Vida Select is for you. You will have to invest in yourself but who better to invest in. I know you will have the success I have had whether you are looking for a long term relationship or marriage, this is the place. Thank you Francesca and Vida Select
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-26
Thank you so much for your thoughtful message! It's been an absolute pleasure working with you, and I'm thrilled to hear how well everything has been going. I’m excited to see where this journey takes you! -Francesca
Online dating is difficult. My matchmaking team contact was Nordika. She is very personable & has outstanding communication skills. While there's no formula in finding "the one", Nordika and team will do the best they can to accommodate their client's preferences.
5 Stars to Nordika & team.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-13
Hi KC. Thank you so much for leaving this review, it's really appreciated. Working with you is such a pleasure and so much fun. We feel honored to be part of this special journey 🙂 Nordika
They helped me manage my online dating accounts. Not only did this take a significant amount of burden off me from a time perspective, but they also increased the amount of matches and quality of likes I got on the apps. Barbara was great. She is communicative and very easy to work with.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-13
Thank you so much for your kind words, Jeff! It was a pleasure working with you, and I’m thrilled to hear that we were able to save you time and improve your experience on the apps. Your success means a lot to me, and I’m glad I could be part of your journey. Wishing you all the best! – Barbara
Their ability to craft a profile for you based on an interview is uncanny. I was struggling to get likes and matches on the various dating platforms, and I was convinced it was my photos and profile that were the problem. After a photo shoot to get a fresh look and and overhaul of my prompts and bio, once we went live I immediately started getting likes quality profiles I wanted to match with. Before I knew it I had more likes and matches than I've ever had, and I've dated more on the last 2 weeks than I have in my entire life!
I even think we found a keeper ;)
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-09
Kevin, thank you for your kind review and trust in our service! We are thrilled that all the changes have had such a positive impact on your dating life!
I can't say enough good things about Francesca and VIDA Select - I found the service to be very flexible and reasonable to use. They listened to my preferences and I am now in a loving and caring relationship after only being in the service for 3-4 months. They aren't pushy or demeaning - they really get where you are coming from and also help you navigate some of the red flags that I was so out of practice with. The key is to trust the process and take the time to get the profile and pics right up front.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-06
Thank you so much! I am so happy you enjoyed your experience. I really appreciated how much you trusted our process and so happy you found someone special. - Francesca
Not sure why there are so many good reviews, but I feel I wasted my money with them.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-18
Hi Be G -
Rosalia with Client Success here. I'm disappointed to hear about your dissatisfaction, but I can't fix a problem I don't know about! However, I want you to know that we're committed to finding solutions and improving our service for every client.
I'd like to invite you to reach out to me directly at [email protected] so we can speak in more detail about your account and I can see what I can do to improve your experience. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Working with my matchmaker Francesca and the VIDA Select team was a wonderful experience. They took the time to truly understand me—my background, interests, and what I was seeking in a partner. They used this insight to create profiles that genuinely represented who I am and what I’m looking for.
Having spent three weeks managing my own dating profiles before hiring VIDA, I knew how overwhelming and time-consuming this process could be. Although it took some time for them to start getting me dates, they continuously adjusted my matches based on my feedback, and it was well worth the wait. After about two months, I began dating someone promising.
If you’re considering VIDA, my advice is to communicate openly, trust their process, and be patient. The results aren’t immediate, but they are worth it. VIDA knows what they’re doing, and I wouldn’t hesitate to work with them again if needed!
Reply from VIDA Select2024-09-06
Thank you so much for your kind words. You were a joy to work with. I really enjoyed getting to know you, and I am so happy it's going well with your current match! And we are always here if anything changes. - Francesca
A full five stars. Very helpful! Kedi’s knowledge and experience were essential in helping me put together a quality profile, engage multiple prospective dates per established criteria, and ultimately lineup dates that led to a meaningful progression. I am so thankful! -Chad
Reply from VIDA Select2024-08-15
Hi Chad, thank you for the wonderful review! It has been a pleasure being a part of your journey to finding someone special. The team and I are thrilled for you and wish you both the very best. - Kedi
This is the BEST way to date I have EVER participated in. After years of poking around myself on sites--and quitting with overwhelm and busy--I am meeting terrific individuals that fit me and being walked through a joyful process. Francesca Wright is my matchmaker and totally gets what I'm looking for. All the entries on my behalf really represent me. I feel only positive about where this experience is going.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-08-15
Hi Cyndi,
Thank you so much for your sweet words! You have an amazing attitude towards dating and life in general. It's an absolute pleasure to work with you!
Best,
Francesca
VIDA was a great experience and Tara was extremely helpful and in tune with my requests for the women I'm interested in for a serious relationship.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-08-01
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and the kind words! I really enjoyed working with you and wish you all the best. I look forward to updates in the future! - Tara
Lorraine and the team have done an amazing job for me. We found one profile that stood out, I really wanted to get her number and get to know her, the team got on to messaging her and Lorraine kept me updated daily. We Have been on 3 dates and we both decided we on want to date each other and see where things go. Also, the way the Vida team helped me with my profile was awesome. Previously my profile was not very good at all and was never sure how to write a good profile. The lady I'm seeing made that very comment that it was the main reason she was interested and very impressed because my profile was very well written. I wanted to Say a big thank you and for me the whole experience with Vida has been worth it. I know those that those who read this will question the expense but please keep in mind, would you rather spend several months or even years searching for what your looking for and wanting to find or spend a bit of money to have good people that are more than willing to help in anyway they can so long as you ask for assistance whether through emails or texts.
So again thank you!
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-17
Hi David! I really appreciate your kindness and time to write this awesome review! I wish you all the best with your match. I hope you always take care! - Lorraine
It has been my pleasure to work with Lorraine Crosse.
It has been my pleasure to work with Lorraine Crosse as my matchmaker at Vide Select.
Throughout the whole process, which ended in my finding a wonderful partner, Lorraine served as a dedicated, faithful advisor. She was so thoughtful, wise, empathic and experienced throughout this search process.
Lorraine is a gentle soul. She was committed to giving her considerable experienced thoughts for each promising partner that came into view. She diligently learned what I thought would make a good match while also giving me additional suggestions that I had not considered. There was no topic that I raised which she would not take up and explore with me. She was a very savvy advisor mixed with the outlook of a committed friend. She exceeded my expectations throughout.
I cannot thank Lorraine enough for all that she brought to my successful Vide Select experience. I wish her the best of luck.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-10
Hi AJT! I really appreciate this stunning review! Thank you very much for being so kind and awesome to all of us! We're very happy to be part of this important journey of yours. All the best to you and your match! - Lorraine
As someone who is new to online dating, I found the VIDA SELECT services invaluable. They walked me through the steps of curating and online profile and photos that maximized my potential for quality matches. Most importantly, they did the hard work of identifying and screening potential matches, initiating chats and recommending compatible matches that met my dating requirements. I particularly appreciated my relationship with my matchmaker Lorraine who took the time to get to know me, was always readily available to answer questions, offer guidance, and provide encouragement. I would definitely recommend VIDA. Finding love online can be an arduous task… Having a matchmaker like Lorraine made all the difference.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-10
Hi GEB! Thank you very much for this great review! I am glad to have worked with such an amazing lady with class. I wish you the best! - Lorraine
Excellent service with Vida Select. My matchmaker, Nordika, was especially kind and thorough. Each date I went on, matched with what I was looking for. Thank you Nordika for your expertise and guidance.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-10
Thank you so much for leaving this review for us. I loved getting to know you and thank you for being such an amazing client to work with. I truly wish you all the best for the future. Please stay in touch and let us know how you are doing 🙂 Nordika
Expectations met and exceeded. Working with Hayley through Vida has been a game-changer. The difference between doing things myself and engaging with Vida is like night and day.
For example, there was a woman I couldn't connect with before. Now, I've texted her, spoken with her, and even made plans to meet. This wouldn't have happened without Vida.
If you're not seeing results on your own, make the move.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-04
Thank you so much Aaron for the kind words. The entire team has so enjoyed working with you and to say you already have results is an understatement. I can't wait to be a part of what is next to come with you. You deserve all the best! - Hayley
So my first review was very negative due to my understanding of the services vs. the actual service I purchased. Once I made a complaint I was immediately contacted by Rosalia, the Client Success Manager. She explained the process, and we cleared up where the disconnect had happened. I felt as if she understood my issue and was there to not only resolve it, but to assure the miscommunication didn't happen again. We resolved the issue to everyone's satisfaction.
Reply from VIDA Select2024-07-02
Dear Jodi,
Thank you for sharing your feedback about your experience as a member of our Internal Database. I appreciate the opportunity we had over the phone to address your concerns and clarify our services.
For any prospective clients reading this, to clarify Ms. Graffam had purchased a membership in our database. This is a comprehensive package for just a few hundred dollars, which includes a video interview, one proactive search for potential matches within our pool, the creation of a detailed internal profile, and lifetime inclusion in our matchmaking database as a preferred match.
It's crucial to understand that our database membership differs significantly from our full-service matchmaking packages, in which we take a much more proactive approach to sourcing matches and sending our clients out on dates.
Thank you again, Jodi, for your valuable input so we can make sure there is no similar confusion for future clients. We'll keep you updated as new potential matches arise. -Rosalia
