10 months in, no dates so far
As of this writing, I have been a client for over 10 months and still have yet to go on any dates. As others have mentioned, they simply give you a phone number, and you figure out the rest. THIS IS A BROKEN BUSINESS MODEL. They claim better curated matches and a more engaging experience than dating apps....but the same issues still exist as two women I matched with just ghosted me prior to even talking on the phone or meeting up. I asked the matchmaker why she thought the lady was a good fit for me and her response was "she's really pretty.",,, reflecting the level of compatibility analysis provided. We all know looks alone cannot sustain a long-lasting committed relationship. They will advise you to trust the process without clear communication or road markers on your journey. Don't believe the hype of them having lots of people in their database waiting for you...if none of those people meet your criteria than it's a moot point. You may get paired up with matches simply to help burn up your matches to meet their obligations. They probably should not have taken me on as a client if they anticipate it would be difficult to match me. Yes they will offer trite reminders that dating can be arduous. We all know that..if it were easy than no one would need your services. But we are not getting any younger, and if you are expected to wait months - potentially years between matches, then it seems counter-productive to your mission statement. They may advise you to check in with your matchmaker to see what is happening. But if you are paying top dollar as a client, then why do you need to remind them that you even exist?
